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Swinging Activities
Exhibitionism:
having sex with a partner while being
watched.
Voyeurism: watching others have sex
(perhaps with the above mentioned partner).
Soft Swinging or
Soft Swap: kissing, stroking, or having oral sex with a third or
fourth person. Soft swap may be in the form
of a threesome, group sex, or the literal
swapping of partners.
Full Swap: having penetrative sex with someone other
than one's partner. Although this is the
commonly understood definition of swinging,
it is not necessarily the most common type.
Group Sex:
An all-inclusive term for activities
involving multiple partners in the same
vicinity.
Swingers on Holiday
If you've booked your holiday or are
thinking of booking a holiday and want to
meet up with other like minded adults, then
why not post your holiday dates and location
on the forums. We have two specials
forums just for this purpose:
We have
UK Swingers abroad, so anyone who
is travelling overseas can add their
holiday dates and locations.
If you are visiting the UK from abroad
or looking to take a break within the UK
then please post your dates and details
in the forum "Swingers Visiting The
UK" or post an Event.
The forums are easy to use and easy to read
by members and who knows, you might get to
meet your perfect match whilst topping up
your tans.
Swinging,
sometimes referred to as the swinging
lifestyle, is "non-monogamous sexual
activity, treated much like any other social
activity, that can be experienced as a
couple."
The
phenomenon (or at least its wider discussion and
practice) of swinging may be seen as part of the
sexual revolution of recent decades, which occurred
after the upsurge in sexual activity made possible
by the prevalence of safer sex practices during the
same period.
Definition of
Swinging courtesy of the
Wikipedia article
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Swingers Etiquette |
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Swinging Questions and Answers
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New to Swinging
Q
First
off, hello everyone. I've been reading some
of these posts & all of you seem to be
really honest with one another, so I'd like
to ask everyone a question: How important is
a person's weight or size? I am very
self-conscious about my body. I'm clean &
disease free, but I feel that the
opportunity for my wife & I to experience
the swinging lifestyle is in jeopardy
because of my size.
A
Everyone
is different and everyone has a different
taste. This applies to men and woman
likewise. The beauty of dating sites is ,
that you can find what matches by telling
what you are what you look for. Honesty goes
a long way in this.
Just tell people on your profile that you
are a biggy.... that way you have a better
chance to get a reply from somebody who
feels attracted by a big body.
A
Size needn't be a problem in swinging.
Although I'm new to this site I'm not new to
the lifestyle and in my own experience the
fact that I'm a few pounds too heavy has
never stopped me from meeting and enjoying
myself with a variety of lovely ladies,
ranging from very slim indeed to the larger
lady.
I do find, however, that it is easier in
swingers' clubs than over the net so far,
possibly because my personality plays in
part in encounters in clubs whereas on sites
like this initial meetings don't usually
take place unless there is some attraction
to the photos sent. It might be worth you
going to a club and seeing what happens.
Q
Is
there a best way to let guys know that you
wouldn't mind them trying it on with my wife
?
I've tried dancing, then leaving her sitting
while I nip to the toilet, only to come back
and find her still sitting alone, I've sent
her up to the bar for drinks and still no
guy has come on to her.
We're going abroad soon and I'm keen to see
if I can get her into an MFM away from home.
Anything I can do apart from wear a sandwich
board saying "I wouldn't mind if you screwed
my wife".
A
Although
I have only recently joined this site I have
attended clubs for a number of years, so
have some experience in this area.
Personally if I saw a lady on her own,
walking round obviously wanting male
attention I would chat to her to see where
it lead. I enjoy the flirting and chatting
up, its all part of the fun.
I can only come up with two reasons why a
lady walking round a club "wearing nothing
but g-string, stockings, sussies and high
heels with my big tits completely naked "
would be ignored:
1. A lot of male swingers are genuinely
ignorant and think they can just join in
with the fun in the playrooms with virtually
no introduction
2. A fear of being accused a bothering a
woman by talking to her. Quite how they
intend to enjoy themselves with a woman
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What Do You Wear to
Swinging Clubs
Q
Am thinking of going to
Partners2Partners in Bury, Manchester but am totally confused about what
to wear.
Do you just go in normal clothes and then get changed inside or do you
wait till you find an interested party and then get changed? and what do
you get changed into? should it be sexy underwear/stocking etc or can it
just be 'nice' underwear. Is everyone walking round naked?
I'm fine about being naked whilst getting frisky but nervous about just
making chit chit totally nude with complete strangers!
Help - have obviously never done this before!
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I'd suggest contacting the club, either by phone or thru their website,
and just ask. We haven't used that particular club, but in our
experience people wear all sorts of things, from pretty normal
streetwear to very little indeed! I tend to wear somewhat short dresses,
but put on some jeans/a skirt underneath to travel, then leave them in
the cloakroom. I also wear 'tart shoes' (lol) so I take them along in a
bag, change in the club and leave my street shoes in the cloakroom.
Some clubs require you to change at a set time, into undies or whatever
but lockers tend to be provided.
Really, just give them a call; they want you to come along - and be
comfortable - so they'll be happy to answer all your questions.
Alternatively, just wear your favourite party gear the first time
around, then adapt for future visits, or have a bag with slightly
naughtier stuff in your car so that you can do a quick change if
appropriate!!
Whatever you wear, the important thing is you, not the clothes!!
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Q
First timers, never
done it before how do we get started
A
Perhaps
start chatting with people on here - you can normally get a feel whether
people are genuine or not - best of luck and have fun!
A
Couldn't agree
more, we have found that chatting on line first has put us at ease when
we finally meet for real.
We enjoy meeting at a neutral venue first for drinks, then back to the
house for mischief if all parties "click".
Things can be a little strained when you get to the house, as you all
know why you are there but are afraid to make the first move, so don't
worry, start a little stroking and kissing with your partner and this is
usually a good ice breaker, leading to whatever you had planned with
your guests.
Be straight up front when you chat on line about how you see the evening
going and what you will or won't do as it can be upsetting when people
want to do things you were not expecting.
I hope you enjoy your forthcoming meets and good luck!
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yes me two, just reading through the forums and loving it, me and my
partner would love to get into swinging, so joined here to try and find
out just how to get started.
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New to this ourselves, found that
pictures help a lot, you dont have 2 show your face, put pics of face in
media then you choose who can see, we tried a party and were very
pleased, there was no pressure and we did everything at our own pace.
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