One of the
many challenges men have is to decide on
what positions to use when getting booty.
The biggest fears are that the woman will
get bored with the "same old, same old" and
as a result lose interest in sex. So the
question becomes, what are the best
sexual positions?
The best way to explain this is to talk
about what NOT to do. With that in mind,
I'll now talk about the top five mistakes
guys make when it comes to sexual positions,
so that way you won't continue making them.
Position Mistake 1: Imitating anything
seen in a porn movie
This is probably
the biggest reason that guys fail with
sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think
porn is a good model because they see studs
banging beautiful broads, and… well, they
just don't know any better. The problem is
that sexual positions in those sorts of
movies are meant to display a good scene for
viewers, not to maximize pleasure for the
actors.
And in fact, one of the WORST positions for
clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the
woman puts her ankles on your shoulders.
With her pelvis bent back that far, she can
feel pain in her cervix if you push in too
far. Plus it's a position that puts
pressure. (If you ever have a chance to go
behind the scenes and watch the making of an
adult movie, you'll see how quickly the mood
gets killed when the actress keeps having to
stop the scene to go to the bathroom!)
Position Mistake 2: Trying too hard to
keep your weight off the woman, in any
position
To a woman, sex is a way to
get closer to her man. She loves it when he
leans on the underside of her thighs. So
here's a tip for you to try... Next time
you're having sex with your woman (while
you're engaged in actual intercourse, that
is), get more of your weight on her. You
see, during sex, almost every woman enjoys
feeling her man's body pressed hard against
her.
So how much weight should you put on her?
Make it enough so that after you come, and
the sexual frenzy dissipates, your woman
will tell you that she feels like she's
being smooshed. Of course, do this within
limits! If you're on top off her grinding
her pubic bone for too long, it can feel
painful for her.
But the bottom line is that many, many women
like to be pressured by at least some of the
man's weight. So save the gentlemanly sex
for the royal family's women!
Position Mistake 3: Letting the woman do
all the work when she's on top
For
virtually every woman, sex is mostly a
passive activity. So by being the motionless
beta male, you destroy the whole purpose of
sex for her, which is to open herself up to
you penetrating into her body.
Position Mistake 4: Being a wimp
A
lot of guys have read too many "Men are From
Mars"-type books and think women like it if
you ask permission for everything and let
them take the lead. Be the alpha male
instead and just "do it." Flip her over,
move her here and there. Be aggressive and
even toss her about like a rag doll when you
want to change positions, and... she'll LOVE
it! And don't worry about it. If something
is going on that the woman doesn't like,
she'll let you know.
Position Mistake 5: Thinking the trickier
positions are better
You don't need to
be upside down, hanging from a lamp, and
doing something crazy. Just be normal. An
old standby like the missionary (man on top,
woman lying on her back) can be the best
sexual position.
Tricky positions are just frustrating for
everybody and often kill the mood because
there's too much "where should I put my
arm?"... and not enough "let's just have fun
exploring."
